Dear Single Man:
Have you ever been in that moment with a woman where you KNOW you should make a move - like hold her hand or kiss her - and the time is right... but you back down and chicken out at the last second?
- Do you feel frustrated with how you're dating women - being stuck on HER sexual timetable?
- Do you feel like you're in a state of sexual "limbo" - unable to connect with women and get them into the bedroom?
- Do you feel like you lack the sexual POWER to choose the kind of woman you want for a girlfriend? That all the women you want are "out of your league," and you're going to have to settle for less if you want to get any sex?
- Do you feel like you're trapped in a "negative loop" - unable to break out of your anxious thoughts long enough to feel comfortable and sexually confident around women?
Do you want to know how to date girls like this? Keep reading to find out...
Look, let's cut to the chase... You're sexually frustrated.
You want to get laid. You probably even want a girlfriend and not just a one night stand. (But hey, either one would do...)
You see all those guys around you either using some kind of fake banter or clever tricks to get women, but you've either tried it and couldn't pull it off, or it's just not you and you don't even want to bother with it. And as pissed off and frustrated as you might be, you don't want to be a manipulative jerk or deceptive just to attract a woman.
You've got some standards, and that's important.
BUT this situation is getting old, and you really need some results - FAST!
There's So Much To Get Right Just To Get A Woman Interested In You...
There are a lot of steps between first meeting a woman and getting physical with her, aren't there?
To get her into bed, you'll need to know the roadmap of sexual escalation...
And what about sex?
- First you gotta think of something cool to say to walk up and approach her, and you risk getting rejected even IF you manage to work up the balls to do it. (Let's face it - most of the time it's more comfortable not to bother and just avoid the risk of getting shot down...)
- IF you're not shot down, then you have to try to get her interested in you with some witty conversation and banter...
- And IF you can get her attracted and interested, that's still no guarantee you'll get her phone number...
- And most of the time, it's either a bad number, or she never answers... (Even when you think you got things started GREAT with her.)
- And IF you do call her and talk to her, how do you get that first date...?
- And then how do you make sure she doesn't flake out on you...?
- Wait, what about getting the second date...?
- What do you do to get a kiss?
- And then what about getting more physically intimate with her...?
You see, the most important thing to know about this chain of steps from approaching a woman to dating her to sleeping with her is this:
There is ONE absolutely critical attraction element you must have to get women to go 'all the way' with you.
And if you're missing this one CRITICAL
piece of the puzzle, THIS will probably happen to you:
- She'll flake out early on or just lose her interest. I call this "Failure to launch" syndrome...
- And even IF you get a date or two, it fizzles out just when you should be getting hot and physical...
- And even IF you beat the odds and make it to the bedroom, there's no real fireworks there, and the chemistry dies.
And when you're missing this vital piece of the picture, you usually wind up with her telling you she wants to "just be friends."
So again, you need this critical ingredient in your back pocket
or nothing you do will work right with women. It took me years to identify and find this one critical piece of the puzzle. It's the "magic bullet" for guys who want to put an end to their sexual frustration once and for all.
What 99 Out Of 100 Guys Don't Know
About "Escalating" With Women...
lmost none of the guys out there know about this, and it's why most guys wind up settling for women instead of having a "trophy" on their arm. I'm willing to bet that you've experienced the "Flinch." What is the "Flinch"?
It's that point where you shy away from showing your sexual interest in a woman. You know you've reached a point where you SHOULD do something to "make a move," but you don't.
Maybe there's a pause in the conversation where you should ask for her number... and you don't. Or you call her up to ask her out, but she seems distracted... so you don't. Or she seems ready for the kiss, and the moment is right... but you don't.
You back off or chicken out. You start to lose your sexual confidence.
Do You Recognize These 5 Early Warning Signs?
- Do you ever hide your sexual desires from women? (Trying to sneak in and be indirect?)
- Are you afraid to touch a woman (even on the arm) on the first date?
- Are you afraid of being "caught" admiring a woman's appearance?
- Do you think it's disrespectful to make a sexual advance on a woman without a very clear invitation?
- Do you find yourself looking away quickly when making eye contact with women?
If you can identify with any of those signs, it's very likely that what I'm about to tell you will completely transform your sexual success with women. Even if you've tried other methods in the past and had limited success - or NO success.
I'll tell you this: I've personally experienced all 5 of those situations above at one point or another. And no, it's not your fault you have trouble getting sexual with women. So the man's BIG MISTAKE is this:
Most Guys Wind Up HIDING Their Sexual Interest In Women...
This mistake is much much worse than showing too much interest, by the way. Why do guys keep their interest in a woman hidden like this?
At first I thought it was because we were afraid of ruining things with women. After all, most women can be approached and will talk to you
. But when you get ten minutes into a conversation, if you're faced with possibly taking a risk on her saying NO, you probably won't take that risk.
You'll back off from taking the next step because you don't want to ruin what you've got, right?
But what I saw underneath it all was a fear. This fear is ruining the ability of most men to get things started with women they're attracted to. So what I realized was... The Real Reason Guys Hide Their Sexual Mojo Is... Because they feel sexual PANIC around attractive women.
And when you feel sexual panic - and she senses it - this KILLS your sexual confidence. The "ONE critical thing" I've been talking about - that you need - is this:
The Secret Is Sexual Confidence...
When you have "sexual confidence," women will feel naturally attracted to you...
If your sexual confidence gets "turned off" when you're with a woman, she'll sense it.
There's an old bit of sales wisdom that says that bad salesmen are 'bad' simply because they don't believe enough in the product they're selling.
And the BEST salesmen believe they've got something fantastic - and every person alive needs to have this thing. They'd never let someone walk away without buying it. They'd actually be doing their prospect a disservice by not convincing them to get one.
You don't need any clever sales techniques when you REALLY believe in what you're selling.
Well, with most guys, their core foundation is unstable and shaky. And they don't feel like the Prize. They don't feel confident in their "product." They can't escalate and "close the deal."
Not only is this true in sales, it's TWICE as true with women. Your product is YOU, my friend!
So why don't you have confidence in your "product"? Why aren't YOU sexually confident?
Why Aren't Guys Getting Sex From Women?
Especially the NICE guys...?
Because of something I call "fear of pulling the trigger
Guys spend way too much time hiding their interest in women - because of sexual panic - and not being sexually assertive enough. They flinch instead of moving the game forward. They think they've got to approach a woman with kid gloves and be Mr. Nice Guy. Mr. Super Romantic Guy.
You may have noticed that acting like that doesn't work, does it? You don't want to trick her either, so...
Here's One Simple Technique To
Make A Woman Sexually Desire You...
So the guy is moving forward, hoping the woman doesn't put on the brakes... and the girl is just watching his every move, getting ready to stop him.
Do you know how to go further - faster - with women?
The secret to escalating with women is knowing
how to get your sexual power back...
The Secret is this: Put on the brakes FIRST.
The best thing you can do to guarantee that you keep moving forward - keep escalating - is just to know when she's about to put on the brakes, and then you stop her before she stops you.
This flips a switch in her head - and gets her interested and motivated to KEEP getting more sexually intimate with you - instead of shutting you down.
You probably thought that this was completely opposite to the way you wanted to handle it, right?
The male ego says: "Keep going until she stops you!" But if you do this one too many times, you're cut off for good. If she puts your brakes on more than a few times, she's going to make one assumption: "He ONLY wants to have sex with me..." Then she puts an end to the fun.
And even if she was interested in some fun for herself, she's not going to let the sex happen just because her programming won't let her sleep with you until you put things back in the right order.
BEWARE! The Juggernaut Of Failure That CRUSHES Most Men...
There's a tragic cycle in a man's life that destroys his sexual attraction with women.
There are three parts to a man's sexual confidence - do you know how they work?
- Sexual Confidence = How confident you are in your masculinity and knowing that women want you...
- Sexual Attractiveness = How much women actually desire you - based on your confidence...
- Sexual Experience = How good you are satisfying a woman in bed & how much sex you're getting...
And they're all tied together.
If you don't have the sexual experience of pleasing women in bed, your sexual confidence drops lower...
- ... which then makes you feel and act less sexually attractive...
- ... which subconsciously pushes women away...
- ... which makes it harder to get the sexual experience you need...
- ... which lowers your confidence and your attractiveness even more...
You see how it's all one big cycle? And this is what creates your SEXUAL PANIC ATTACKS
with women! This is why guys pull back when they should be flying forward.
It's a slippery slope, like a snowball rolling downhill and gathering more speed and size as it goes. Pretty soon, if it goes un-checked, it's pretty much unstoppable.
So how do you break the downward spiral of lost sexual confidence?
It's actually fairly easy to break free
- once you know what's happening to you. Here's the simple solution:
Take A SHORTCUT To Sexual Confidence With Women...
Get Sexual Confidence fast by discovering what women really want, and how to show your sexual attraction safely with women.
Fast-forward your way into complete sexual confidence - and break the vicious cycle.
You don't have to sleep with 100 women to get that primal confidence... You really don't even have to sleep with ONE. You just have to know what women really want - in and out of the bedroom.
Sexual Power is knowing you have the ability to satisfy a woman. And that she will want to drag you into her bed... And knowing you will make her SCREAM with pleasure and delight when you get her there.
Did you know that "low-status" men marry less attractive women, have much more stress, and die earlier than "high status" men?
It's a fact, proven in study after study. Without a feeling of power in a man's life, he loses a sense of control over his future.
NO power = NO control... and... NO sexual power = NO sex.
FACT: When You've Lost Your Sexual Confidence, You Won't Even Approach Women...
When you don't feel like you can give a woman a good sexual EXPERIENCE, you won't have the sexual confidence and sexual attractiveness you need to get her into the bedroom. And so you become afraid to even hit on women. You think she has some ridiculously high standards on how good you have to be in the bedroom just because she's pretty.
If you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that any woman you slept with would be BLOWN AWAY by you in bed... If you KNEW you could deliver that... Do you think you'd have a problem being more sexual with women?
No, and that's what I'm going to show you how to do.
What will Sexual Confidence do for you?
- It's the fast-track to the bedroom and all the sex you desire...
- It's the only way to wipe out your anxiety around women...
- It's the only way to avoid the friend zone with women...
- It's the secret to one-night-stands and multiple girlfriends...
- It's the secret to keeping your woman sexually addicted to you - and guaranteeing she never cheats on you...
- It's the only way you can EVER get women to respect you as a man...
- It's the secret to turning your sweet girlfriend into a naughty vixen - desperate to please you...
Sexual Confidence is SEXUAL POWER & DOMINANCE with women.
The power to attract women, and the power to HAVE the women you want.